When an old lady
died in the
geriatric ward of
a small hospital
near Dundee,
Scotland, it was
believed that she
had nothing left
of any value.
Later, when the
nurses were going
through her meager
possessions, they
found this poem.
Its quality and
content so
impressed the
staff that copies
were made and
distributed to
every nurse in the
hospital.
One nurse took her
copy to Ireland.
The old lady's
sole bequest to
posterity has
since appeared in
the Christmas
edition of the
News Magazine of
the Northern
Ireland
Association for
Mental Health.
A slide
presentation has
also been made
based on her
simple, but
eloquent, poem.
And this little
old Scottish lady,
with nothing left
to give to the
world, is now the
author of this
"anonymous" poem
winging across the
Internet:
Old Woman
What do you see,
nurses? What do
you see?
What are you
thinking when
you're looking at
me?
A crabby old
woman, not very
wise,
Uncertain of
habit, with
faraway eyes?
Who dribbles her
food and makes no
reply
When you say in a
loud voice, "I do
wish you'd try!"
Who seems not to
notice the things
that you do,
And forever is
losing a stocking
or shoe?
Who, resisting or
not, lets you do
as you will,
With bathing and
feeding, the long
day to fill?
Is that what
you're thinking?
Is that what you
see?
Then open your
eyes, nurse,
you're not looking
at me.
I'll tell you who
I am as I sit here
so still,
As I do at your
bidding, as I eat
at your will.
I'm a small child
of ten with a
father and mother,
Brothers and
sisters, who love
one another.
A young girl of
sixteen with wings
on her feet
Dreaming that soon
now a lover she'll
meet.
A bride soon at
twenty, my heart
gives a leap,
Remembering the
vows that I
promised to keep.
At twenty-five
now, I have young
of my own,
Who need me to
guide and a secure
happy home.
A woman of thirty,
my young now grown
fast,
Bound to each
other with ties
that should last.
At forty, my young
sons have grown
and are gone,
But my man's
beside me to see I
don't mourn.
At fifty once
more, babies play
round my knee,
Again we know
children, my loved
one and me.
Dark days are upon
me, my husband is
dead,
I look at the
future, I shudder
with dread.
For my young are
all rearing young
of their own,
And I think of the
years and the love
that I've known.
I'm now an old
woman and nature
is cruel;
'Tis jest to make
old age look like
a fool.
The body, it
crumbles, grace
and vigor depart,
There is now a
stone where I once
had a heart.
But inside this
old carcass a
young girl still
dwells,
And now and again,
my battered heart
swells.
I remember the
joys, I remember
the pain,
And I'm loving and
living life over
again.
I think of the
years all too few,
gone too fast,
And accept the
stark fact that
nothing can last.
So open your eyes,
people, open and
see,
Not a crabby old
woman; look closer
. . . see ME!!
Author Unknown
Remember this poem
when you next meet
an old person who
you might brush
aside without
looking at the
young soul within
. .. . we will
all, one day, be
there, too!